You are an Erotic Universe.

When I met my mentor Jaiya, the creator and founder of the Erotic Blueprints™, I was in awe. Her boldness, her competence and most definitely her aliveness. Even after years working in sexuality, these teachings felt revolutionary.

I felt like I was looking in the mirror, and I dove in. Deeply. (I opened to a new layer of permission – an acceptance of my sexuality, of myself, that I hadn’t felt before.) I was flying, inspired.

I was in a brand new universe, filled with planets of sexualities. Those are the Blueprints.

Imagine this: Each human has their own universe of pleasure planets, full of ways to explore and expand. No shame, just you in a multitude of landscapes. You have permission to be in all of it, taste it, smell it, touch it. Find out what it does. Explore what it responds to. And best of all: feel, feel, feel, feel.

The planet of the Sensual Blueprint™ is very much like Earth. There are rainforests and oceans and deserts. Peaks and valleys of texture and dimension. Incredible sights dazzle the eyes, scents and songs fill you, whisper within your body. Every sense is alive and pulsing.

After luxuriating there for days, you take a quick trip to the Sexual Blueprint™ planet, a place of nothing but genitals and nakedness, a jungle of bodies and sexual parts in all shapes, sizes, colors. Juices flow, guaranteed to orgasm and ejaculate over and over and over. This is a planet of fun and play!

The planet of the Kinky Blueprint™ is a planet of nothing but doorways… infinite secret doorways of desire and taboo, doorways to your edge — an edge that has no beginning and no end. If you thought you couldn’t try it anywhere else, this is the place to experiment and find ways to arouse yourself that you had never dared consider.

The Energetic Blueprint™ is the space between the planets, the nebulas of color, the stretch of the journey, the excitement of arriving and taking off again. In that vastness, there is immense safety and pleasure, stretched into soul shaking orgasmic perfection.

Then finally, there is the Shapeshifter Blueprint™. This is the galaxy of them all, planets whirling around stars, a roller coaster going around and through each planet individually, and all of them simultaneously. It’s all the pleasure, all the time, forever. And then you get to hop to the next galaxy, the next and the next.

In all of my discoveries, I am certain that pleasure is so very personal.

The Erotic Blueprints give me permission to explore beyond the cultural voices that tell me who to be and how to be it. I get to experience my very own sights and wonders, my pain and pleasure, my depth. I get to nourish my planets, care for them, inhabit them. They are inside me, and I’m the one who grants access. My entire life changed and continues to change.

So often we think we need permission from an external source, but in truth, permission really is from within. The external is more like a nudge that points the way to our own empowerment. The Blueprints gave me the nudge I needed to give myself permission to fully own my erotic universe. I’ve expanded my definition of pleasure, which expanded my definition of sex, which expanded my definition of orgasm, which gave me even more permission to explore the infinity of me.

To find out about your own erotic universe, take this quiz.