Competition and Comparison in Non-Monogamy
Really examine whether the comparisons you’re making are things you can change or signs of the issues you’re having with your own relationship.
Song of the Week: “i wanna be your girlfriend” by girl in red
The track “i wanna be your girlfriend” isn’t new by any means, but the song is so catchy, and necessary, we wanted to put it back in the spotlight this week. Indie pop music of Norwegian singer-songwriter and record producer girl in red is back!
3 Reasons I Love Romance Novels
Romance books and the romance community gave me a safe space to learn more about myself when I thought I might not be as straight as I thought I was.
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The film is an insightful look at the fears Nancy, and many of us, have about pursuing our sexual desires, as well as a stinging critique to critics of sex work.
How to Navigate Non-Monogamy: An Interview with Author Lola Phoenix
If your partner wants a non-monogamous relationship, agreeing to non-monogamy with hope of saving your monogamous relationship is like agreeing to a long distance relationship and believing it will be the same as an in-person relationship.
Erotic Artist Interview: Risqué Alter Ego
I personally don’t create my artwork with the intention to arouse anyone. I can only hope people view erotic art with an open mind and can appreciate it as a piece of art that tells or creates a story in the viewer's mind.
The History of Fire Island
I could tell from the excited lurch in my stomach that this was the entrance to the Meat Rack, the legendary wooded cruising ground that separates the Grove from the Pines.
Song of the Week: “midnight sun” by Nilüfer Yanya
From her latest album, Painless, Nilüfer Yanya one again delivers perfection. With her song, “Midnight Sun”, she starts her melody slowly and then unfolds and builds it into a passionate song with soft immaculate textures, and painful lyrics.
The Importance of Trans and Nonbinary Erotica
I chose the stories collected here because they unapologetically celebrate queerness, gender diversity, and non-traditional relationship structures, while simultaneously challenging more conventional nonfiction genre writing and styles.
I Only Want to Date the Kind of Men I Make Up in My Head
I’m honestly not sure how we can change our cultural story around romantic relationships without changing the myths that we perpetuate in popular fiction.