Exclusive Interview: Romance novelist Sierra Simone on writing queer and polyamorous romance
"The stories sort of organically evolve into the way that I understand sex, the way that I understand love, which is fundamentally queer. "
Sex and the Married Woman
I think it’s a lie that women aren’t as sexual as men, and I try to show that with my characters.
Exclusive Interview: Dirty Lola, Sex Edutainer, on Online Dating
“This all started with a Twitter account, and being bored. I joke I was a bored monogamous housewife, and I was looking for an outlet and going through a quarter-life crisis…”
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Exclusive Interview: August McLaughlin, Girl Boner podcast host, on Erotic Rituals
"When I embraced my sexuality as my own, and I embraced self-pleasure, it also changed the rest of my life, not just sexually, but I [also] felt stronger as an individual."
Exclusive Interview: Kevin Patterson, author of ‘Love’s Not Color Blind,’ on Polyamory and Jealousy
"Jealousy's an emotion. And like every other emotion, it doesn't always make sense. It doesn't always come from a specific place. It's not always something you're going to understand the second you get it."
How Writing a Book Brought Me Closer to My Partner
Many of us never even knew we could have needs or wants outside the norm, or that sexual fulfilment might mean freedom from as much as freedom to.
Exclusive Interview: Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah, Author of The Sex Lives of African Women, On Sexuality and Feminism
Watch our interview with Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah, author of The Sex Lives of African Women, about Sekyiamah's work around sexuality, how feminism informs her work, and why all people should talk about sex, the topic of her Desire Summit talk.
Watch the Trailer for New Docuseries ‘Sex Diaries’
HBO's new Sex Diaries docuseries chronicles eight New Yorkers, including sex edutainer Dirty Lola, in short, intimate profile as they navigate sex and dating in the city.
A Widow Writes Her Dating Profile
I know I'm alone and it terrifies me, but I'd better leave that out, too. I worry I'll sound terribly retro as I search for a man in an age when so many women have chosen to be single.
The Scene After the Sex Scene Is Better than Sex
It was one thing to have spontaneous sex with a man she barely knew; it was quite another for him to get an eyeful of her naked body after the lust goggles had been removed.