A bisexual person may be a swinger, or they may be monogamous or monogamish, or they may be celibate. None of these mean that a bisexual person is sexually available to whomever, nor does any of it mean that a bisexual person is promiscuous.
Lizzie has a bad habit of feeling like she doesn’t measure up—something that she has to deal with throughout this book as she learns to embrace her own “Reputation Era.”
Be honest about what you want and put yourself out there when you are ready. There is nothing wrong with being on your own and taking time to heal.
Getting married for the first time at 51 was a mind blower; it was totally surreal because I had given up on it. Marriage at any age is exciting, but after working so hard and waiting so long, I appreciated it even more.
I think there was something about the testosterone being in my body (and it being unremovable) that allowed me to stop focusing on all my fears and allowed me to focus on my hopes for the first time.
Imagine this: Each human has their own universe of pleasure planets, full of ways to explore and expand. No shame, just you in a multitude of landscapes. You have permission to be in all of it, taste it, smell it, touch it. Find out what it does.
It's National Masturbation Month, so what song is more fitting than the super catchy 90s hit with its straight-to-the-point title "I Touch Myself?" The ode to self-pleasure by Australian band Divinyls was an international, chart-topping success.
What I hope is that readers will have the same experience that I did: utter joy at learning something new and exciting. It’s a gift K-pop gave to me, and so many others.
I have received hundreds of messages from bi folks across the globe thanking me for sharing my story. Though they hadn’t met an openly bi man, many of my experiences mirrored theirs.
Most people immediately assume I’m talking about sex. But our cultural conditioning obfuscates our sensuality, our connection to our bodies. Pleasure is not just about sex, it’s about our ability to embody a joyous, connected life.