As he massaged, he kept asking more and more questions, interviewing me as he had on our first date. It was as if he had to get down to the root of me deeply, thoroughly, urgently. Like there was no more pressing subject.
The more you face the pain from your backstory, the more manageable your feelings of jealousy will become. But facing those messages must be done gently, with self-compassion and proper timing.
Surprisingly, one element that been almost effortless to navigate is B.’s other partner, T. T. is my metamour and I adore her.